Even though I took the aspect of sex in a relationship into account some time before, I would like to get back to this matter, as it is one of the basic problems in a marriage. I see it as a problem, because many couples do not understand that this is the primordial issue, next to communication that maintains a relationship solid.
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Here are some steps that you might take into account if you want to “save” your marriage and sex life.
Talk, talk, talk
The most important thing, as I emphasized earlier, is to communicate. Whatever you have on your head relating the other, feel free to share, because this is the way marriage works. If he/she doesn’t look interested in what you want to say, then we have a problem!
Make your life more active
The lack of interest can be caused due to the monotonous life that you might have. Although a walk in the park doesn’t seem too important, it can be really helpful when monotony intervenes in your relationship. Try making things that involve more movement. I feel much better on the inside when I have lots of activity and I am sure the same stays for people in general.
Activity maintains you attractive
You have a fresher look when you have lots of activity and things on your head. Although you might seem stressed, in the end there will be the other negative energy released and if you add sports, then be sure that in the end you are going to maintain yourself fit and look great!
Change your manner of getting dressed
I know that after you got married you have the tendency of saying: “Well I like that, but that is just not me!”; my advice is to dare and try it on. In this way you see how it suits you and maybe you end up purchasing it. Ladies, after you get married it doesn’t mean that you can’t be sexy anymore! You have to prove that you trust yourself and you have self confidence – this is what turns on a man.
Think seriously of the matters that I’ve suggested here, because my only intention is to help you and most of all, to get that self confident woman somewhere at the surface.
Talking about sexy, get sexy lingerie
Yes, you should make him a surprise and buy something hot looking and dress it after you have prepared a nice aphrodisiac meal! All these sound really playful, am I right?